You may wear a Tom Ford suit and a Patek Philippe watch, but if your personal hygiene is lacking, the illusion of sophistication dissolves instantly. In the intimate proximity of dating or companionship, the senses are heightened. When you search our listings to find a partner, remember that she is investing significant effort into her appearance for you. It is your obligation to return that favor. The baseline for this is the "Fresh from the Shower" rule.
What "Fresh" Actually Means
"Fresh from the shower" is not a metaphor. It does not mean you showered this morning before work. It means you have bathed immediately prior to the appointment. If you are coming directly from the office, find a gym or a hotel day-room to freshen up.
The accumulation of a day's stress, sweat, and city grit is perceptible. A shower resets the body and the mind, ensuring you arrive presenting your best self. It signals to your companion that you respect her enough to be pristine.
The Details: Hands and Scent
Beyond the shower, pay critical attention to your hands. Your fingernails should be short, filed, and impeccably clean. Rough or dirty hands are a sensory dealbreaker in intimate settings.
Regarding scent: less is more. A high-quality cologne should be discovered, not announced. A single spritz is sufficient. Do not use fragrance to mask odors; use it to accent cleanliness. Furthermore, oral hygiene is non-negotiable. Brushing, flossing, and a high-quality mouthwash should be the final step before you head out the door.
Pro Tip: Keep a "refresh kit" in your car or briefcase. Mints, a small travel deodorant, and hand sanitizer can save the day if you are caught in transit.
