Every subculture possesses its own vernacular, a shorthand that conveys complex logistics and preferences in a few characters. The world of elite companionship is no different. When you explore our curated collection, you may encounter a stream of abbreviations that can baffle the uninitiated. Mastering this lexicon is not merely an academic exercise; it ensures you do not make a faux pas before the conversation has even begun. Here is your primer on the essential terminology.
The Experience Classifications
GFE (Girlfriend Experience): This is the gold standard for many gentlemen. It implies a session focused on emotional connection, kissing, and a relaxed, non-transactional atmosphere. It is intimate, affectionate, and less "scripted" than other dynamics.
PSE (Porn Star Experience): The antithesis of the GFE. This indicates a dynamic focused on visual intensity, high energy, and performance. It is less about the emotional bond and more about the physical spectacle.
DFK (Deep French Kissing): Often listed to clarify boundaries. Some providers do not kiss on the mouth; those who list DFK embrace it enthusiastically.
The Logistics Codes
Indy vs. Agency: An "Indy" is an Independent provider who manages her own bookings, screening, and branding. An "Agency" companion is represented by a third party who handles the logistics. Indys often offer a more personal touch, while Agencies offer a layer of corporate consistency.
ISO (In Search Of): You will often see this on boards where clients post what they are looking for. E.g., "ISO tall, brunette, GFE."
Toreador/Time Waster: Industry slang for a client who enjoys the thrill of the chase (messaging, planning) but never actually commits to a booking. Do not be this man.
Pro Tip: "Review Required" or "Refs Required". If you see this, the provider only accepts clients who have been vetted by other providers (References) or who have a history of reviews on reputable boards. If you are new (a "Newbie"), be up-front about it immediately.
Status Indicators
UTC (Unable to Accommodate): A polite way of saying a specific request or specific client is not a match.
LTC (Last Minute Cancellation): A red flag for a client. If you LTC frequently, you will likely be blacklisted.
DL (Down Low): Refers to a client who requires extreme discretion, often due to marriage or high public profile.
